Making a woman crazy with pleasure is every man’s dream, especially if he can stimulate orgasm simply with his fingers. For some couples, foreplay is essential and the sexual experience can be improved through particular techniques, but as always says, to do it you have to commit and experiment. So here are some little tips to “touch” women to the fullest.
Touching women: how to do a “fingering”
The woman is not a keyboard, just touching the G key is not enough to give her pleasure. And what’s more, they are not all the same: not all are worth insisting on the most sensitive erogenous zones (the clitoris and the inner part of the vagina). Men, be careful: if you are not very convinced of what you are doing, shyness or inexperience can play tricks.
First understand if the woman is willing to be masturbated, maybe notice her reaction to touching and petting. Situation and partner become one and before turning yourself into speleologists, remember that feeling involved and creating the right atmosphere is crucial. Caresses can open the doors to foreplay and with special massages you can touch more sensitive parts of the body: a kiss on the neck, a caress on the hips, a clamp on the thighs or buttocks.
Only if she makes you understand that it is time to push yourself further, then go straight to the vulva, stroking it under the panties for example or touching the outside of the vagina, playing with large and small labia.
IMPORTANT: A moist, lubricated vagina facilitates finger masturbation. Otherwise, the penetration can be painful and could cause inflammation and discomfort. If the lubrication is not satisfactory, there is probably not the right emotional and physical involvement. In case of vaginal dryness, there is no need to insist, but you can intervene with small quantities of lubricant which can make it even more sparkling. Have you ever tried the “Durex O”, where “o” stands for orgasm?
Forget the idea that the female genital organs are a kind of tube in which you slide a plunger up and down. Haste and too fast movements are often unwelcome, especially in the initial phase. Better to start with stroking along the outside of the vagina.
The most sensitive point is undoubtedly the clitoris, that “little button” located in the upper part of the vagina. Most orgasms come from her direct or indirect stimulation, but be careful: the clitoris is an extremely sensitive area and insisting on that point can cause pain and discomfort. It must be touched carefully and with the right lubrication through the hand or tongue, it can be titillated that is tickled or simply massaged with a smooth object or through a specific sex toy, like this one:
The important thing, in any case, is to identify with your partner’s breathing, in the rhythm that is being created between your caresses and her excitement.