Romantic Questions To Ask Your Girlfriend And Make Her Heart Melt

Romance is something that does not happen just like that. You actually need to put in your brains and a bit of energy for romance to bloom. How about playing a romantic game? Here are 100 romantic questions to ask your girlfriend. No need to do it in one day (she would be exhausted and can actually feel very unromantic). Split the questions over dinner dates, for emotional moments or when you are making holiday plans.

These romantic questions can be great fun. It will not only help you understand your girl better but will help you to come closer to each other.

100 Romantic Questions To Ask Your Girlfriend

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We can already see that you are looking forward to asking these 100 romantic questions to your girlfriend. You just have to make the extra effort of going through this article. We have the questions figured out for you.

There’s no need to feel anxious or awkward if you ask these super fun questions at the right time. The setting is important for these questions so keep that in mind. Ask an intimate question in an intimate setting and not while you are taking a ride on public transport.

You just have to find the right time and the right moment to make it work. Here are the 100 Romantic questions to ask your girlfriend

Cute questions to ask your girlfriend

1. Do you remember the first time we met?

Sometimes people remember this and sometimes they don’t because the first meeting could be inconsequential.

But if your girlfriend can tell you about your first meet then you have something romantic to talk about.

2. When did you fall in love with me?

This is the cutest question to ask your girlfriend because she will have a lot to say. Then the discussion could veer to when you fell for her and you can talk a lot about love.

3. Do I make your heart race?

If she says yes you win if she says no you know you gotta work harder to set her heart aflutter. But chances are she would blush and answer “Yes”.

4. What was the first thing you thought when you saw me?

The answer could be a “moron” so be ready to digest that. If she says “hot” you have reason to gloat.

5. When did you want to kiss me?

This is the cutest question to ask. You could even start blushing when she answers you. But be sure she would keep looking at your lips.

6. What did you feel after our first kiss?

The answer could be a “Thousand stars exploding” or she could say a “sloppy kisser”. Be ready to deal with the answer.

7. Where would you like to go for a date with me?

This is indeed a romantic question to ask your girlfriend but be ready to loosen the purse strings.

8. If I gave you $ 1000 and asked you to get something for us, what would you get?

What she answers will give you an insight into how much “us” she thinks about. It’s indeed a cute question to ask your girlfriend.

From home décor items to naughty toys to spice up the action in bed, this question can elicit a wide range of responses. Keep them in mind and you can draw inspiration from them when buying her your next anniversary gift.

9. What is the best thing you like about me?

Your nose, your eyes, your caring attitude, you sense of humour – the answer could be anything and you would be happy for sure.

10. What cute name would you want to give me?

This is a cute question to ask your girlfriend but if she is not too imaginative they you could land up with something like “Dingo”. But that shouldn’t stop you from saying Bingo!

Funny questions to ask your girlfriend

11. If I wake up with a horn one day what would you do?

She could say she would be reminded of the Devil but it’s a funny question to ask your girlfriend and have a good laugh.

12. We are on a romantic getaway and I pass out drunk…

We are not even getting into the answer bit. Guess you should handle it. She could actually say she would slap you.

13. Who is the supervillain you love?

Loving a villain is fine as long she doesn’t expect you to have his qualities. But if she likes Loki then you will know what you are up against.

This is another question that can become your gift-buying guide. Be it her birthday, Valentine’s Day or Christmas, action figures as gifts are always well-received. You can use her response to pick out the perfect one. Depending on the occasion, do supplement it with other appropriate gits.

14. What is the cheesiest compliment you ever got?

This answer can be a real fun one. But be careful how you handle it. Don’t laugh too much though.

15. What is our funniest memory together?

You guys could end up sharing funny memories and that would add to the romance.

16. If you wake up and find yourself under my bed…

That’s fine. As long as you are just “sleeping” on the bed and she doesn’t catch you doing anything else.

17. What would you do if you are in a Zombie Apocalypse and find that I have turned into a zombie?

Gives her ample opportunity to let her imagination run wild. Then what will come out of it you never know.

18. If you and I go to a reality show, what would it be?

This one is indeed a funny question to ask your girlfriend. Her choice would say what she wants to do with you. If she opts for Big Brother, you are in for some hard time.

19. What’s your most annoying character trait?

Even if she comes up with an honest confession don’t linger too long on the answer if you don’t want to land in trouble.

20. Thirty days without your phone and with me only as company…

Don’t be disappointed if she says she could kill you. Sometimes a phone is more important than romance.

Relationship questions to ask your girlfriend

21. Would you want to live together?

This is an important relationship question to ask your girlfriend if you are planning to take the relationship to the next level.

22. What’s your dream wedding like?

Every girl has a dream about the wedding she wants. Your girlfriend might have a destination wedding in mind.

23. The house you would want to build?

There scope for a lot of romance when she answers this question. Add your bit and get closer to her.

24. Children or childfree?

An important question to discuss. But you will also get to know if you are on the same page in your relationship.

25. Kitchen works for you or the work desk is better?

Great way to work out who does what if you are looking at a future together. She might not want to be stuck in the kitchen, respect that.

26. The one thing you would want your man to do for you always?

She might say chop the vegetables so don’t be crestfallen. She could also say give a tight bear hug.

27. Regular parties with friends or Netflix and chill at home?

You will get to know if she is the outgoing sort or wants to spend all her time with you.

28. Would you want to hang out with the girls or you want us to be together all the time?

Another way to know how much she wants to be with her own friends. Or she expects you be around all the time?

29. Spend time with parents or a pet dog?

You get to know what’s her priority. This relationship question will also help you understand her relationship with her parents.

30. What should anniversary celebrations be like?

This is one of the most romantic questions to ask your girlfriend we feel. You get to know what she has in her mind regarding an anniversary. Gives you enough information for future preps.

Dirty questions to ask your girlfriend

31. Nightdress or naked at night?

She could throw you a pillow but the answer will be fun. You get to know about her sleeping habits too.

32. Lacy lingerie or exotic vibrator?

This one is truly naughty. But you get to know if she wants you more or the vibrator.

33. One place you want to be massaged and kissed?

When she comes up with her answer ensure it’s just the two of you sitting on your couch because you could feel like some action after that.

34. A deep French kiss or a long cuddle on the couch?

This one is really cute and the answer will tell you if your girlfriend is all action or needs lots of affection.

35. Cowgirl or Missionary?

What’s her fave position? Let her tell you. So that next time you are in bed together you know what to do.

36. Have you tried skinny dipping?

This is indeed a dirty question to ask your girlfriend. Not everyone’s tried this but if she has she could tell you a lot.

37. If I ask for a quickie in the lift…

Her answer would say if she is game for fun in all the odd places. Remember that scene in 50 Shades Of Grey.

38. Would you be able to take off my underwear without your hands?

Oh! Gosh we are not even asking what her answer was. And if you are planning to try it we are already looking the other way. Assuming she says yes, you can take a leap of faith and order some edible lingerie/underwear for the both of you. Use the hands-free stripping game to elevate the pleasure quotient of your intimate moments.

39. What’s your favourite time of the day to have sex?

That’s a good one we must say. Some women like it in the morning and some men too. You get to know if you both like the same.

40. How would you want to make me come?

If she is already not blushing she would give an answer to this ultra dirty question.

Deep questions to ask your girlfriend

41. How much do you value me?

If she is not extremely articulate she would find it hard to frame her answer but you will get the drift.

42. What would you want to change about our relationship?

This one is an interesting deep question to ask your girlfriend. She might answer with two, three things though.

43. A secret you have never told me…

The answer could be a revelation. But don’t be shocked and react adversely. People have secrets, you have too.

44. Something you always wanted to ask me…

Be ready for a question that you would find hard to answer. But think carefully and answer she would love what you say.

45. If we ever broke up what would you miss the most about me?

She could say your car. So don’t cry. But she could your affection and care, then also don’t cry.

46. Do you think destiny always has plans?

This one is a deep question to ask your girlfriend and it will tell you if she believes in destiny in the first place.

47. What’s the philosophy of your life?

Deep, deep…extremely deep question to ask your girlfriend. You can have a deep discussion this.

48. What’s the most important value you would want to pass on to me?

That will make her think. But her answer will make you think. (Don’t stay up the night though thinking.)

49. A dream that comes to you often.

Prince Charming riding on a white horse who looks just like you. Just kidding! She could talk about a 5-bedroom villa.

50. Would you want to be very rich or rich in love?

Tricky one, but will tell you how deep she is. If she wants riches you have to work a lot more harder.

Intimate questions to ask your girlfriend

51. What physical aspect about me you love most?

Could be your nose. But it’s indeed an intimate question to ask your girlfriend.

52. Do you look forward to intimacy with me?

You would get to know what she looks forward to. You can work on that aspect even more.

53. What is it I do that turns you on?

Get ready to get turned on actually. When she answers you, you will just love what she tells you.

54. What are our most intimate moments?

Umm…you will love the answer. Think of some that come to your mind and share with her.

55. Can you tell where I have moles in my body?

You will get to know if she has been noticing you closely. This is a real fun intimate question to ask your girlfriend.

56. What is my favourite sleeping position?

A fun one this is but an intimate one indeed. Your day will be made if she says cuddling up to you.

57. How do you like to wake up next to me?

We are already imagining things so let us not get further into this one. Her answer could range from cute to naughty.

58. What makes you feel closest to me?

This is the most romantic and intimate question to ask your girlfriend. Tell her how you feel too.

59. Something you want to do with me in bed?

If she says tie you up then get ready for some awesome action. Some do love exploring BDSM.

60. What is it you like most when we make love?

We are also dying to hear the answer. And we are pretty sure for a woman it won’t be only the climax.

Futuristic questions to ask your girlfriend

61. Do you see yourself in old age with me?

This one will tell you if she is looking at the long haul. Toothless, grey and together – does she think of that?

62. Is there any place you want to settle down in your old age?

Some people have retirement dreams. Check out what’s hers and do you figure in it?

63. Would you stay with me if I am unable to have children?

This is a complex question but the answer will say it all. She could be practical or emotional in her answer.

64. How would you react if I lose my money and become bankrupt?

She could say she would earn and support you and you could go “Aww”. She could also say you better not do something like that.

65. If I forget a special day like a birthday or an anniversary?

If she is honest she would say she would kill you. If she is nice she would say she would forgive you.

66. In my middle age if I start looking obese with a big paunch?

She would send you to the gym. Sorry we are presuming she will not like your flab. If not, she could be touring the world all year round with her girl gang.

67. If I want to become a house husband?

She might hate or like that. But this is a question she would like to answer because it’s out of the box.

68. If I refuse to colour my hair?

She could be a fan of George Clooney and swoon over your grey patches all her life.

69. If I want to make love everyday at 60?

She would want to look up lubes first before she answers you. But she would like it that you think this way.

70. Would you cook dinner for me or would you expect me to do it?

Cooking together is rather romantic we would say. But dividing the daily job is something you have to figure out.

Travel questions to ask your girlfriend

71. Even after we are in a relationship would you want to travel solo or with a girl gang?

Will give you an idea how much solo travel she loves. Or she could be all for going out with the girls.

72. The most romantic place you would want to visit?

That’s a great romantic question to ask we must say. According to her answer you would know where to head next.

73. A log cabin by the lake where we make out all day or a hiking trip up the mountain?

Let’s see what she chooses. She could be an indoor person or an outdoor one and would choose accordingly.

74. The mountains or the sea?

You will get to know what works for her. It would also tell you if she prefers to be static or dynamic.

75. Would you make the research or bookings or you want me to surprise you?

Being involved or being whisked off her feet, you will get to know what she likes.

76. Is five-star hotel your thing or you want to go camping?

Luxury or roughing it out what’s her romantic potion? Or she is she the kind who is all for glamping?

77. A forest/beach/mountain where you want to make love…

We are awaiting a super romantic getaway once she tells you her answer. Hope you have your savings in place.

78. An exotic holiday that you want to plan?

This will be a lot to talk about. That’s for sure. You can give your inputs as well.

79. Would you want to stay in a tree house or in an underwater hotel?

This question is oozing romance, no matter what her answer is. We can almost see romance atop a tree or while you watch the octopus through a glass wall.

80. Exploring local cuisine or having hotel meals?

How adventurous she is about food you will get to know. She might be the kind who can’t do with her muesli every morning or she might be game for trying anything.

Questions on the past to ask your girlfriend

81. Your best childhood memory?

We are sure she could talk for hours on this. Childhood memories do make us ramble endlessly. But sometimes toxic parents give us a difficult childhood but if she loves you she would want to talk to you.

82. How was life in high school?

More fun talk there. She could tell you about her high school crush too or that dating disaster. She would give you all the dets for sure.

83. One lesson you learned from your parents?

She will tell you how her parents are. They could be giving her romantic goals all the time. Or she would tell you how she learned from her parents all the things never to do.

You will get to know her personality. She could have been a shy one who’s become an extrovert now.

85. Did you have controlling parents or they let you fly?

What she thinks of them she will tell you. She could have loathed their control or loved them for giving her freedom.

86. Did you like the childhood you had?

If she had a great childhood she would talk a lot. You could hold her hand when she does.

87. Something about your childhood you love…

Another lovely question. It could be those trips to the strawberry farm or the Halloween tricks they played as kids.

88. The cousin you absolutely hate and why…

This one will be fun. We all have cousins we hate. She surely has too. You will have a fun talk around cousins.

89. Have you been hurt by someone in the past?

A very dainty question about the ex we must say. But you are putting it very respectfully here.

90. Something you want to do to re-visit your past.

This is a romantic one. She might just want to take you with her. Question is would you be willing to go?

Questions to text your girlfriend

91. Do you miss me?

She would love that.

92. When will you hold my hand?

She could write back, “Who was holding your hand in the car right now?”

93. Do I come in your dreams?

Wow! You are all set.

94. When can we go on a date?

Practical but a romantic question to text your girlfriend.

95. I want to buy a gift for you tell me what I can buy?

This one will get her excited. And give you some clear insight into what she truly likes and dislikes. Books, gadgets, perfumes, dresses, accessories and shoes – the list can be long. This means your gift-buying is sorted at least for the next year or so.

96. Will you wear the same perfume like last time?

This is really romantic and tells her you noticed.

97. Would you want to dirty text?

She would tell you yes or no.

98. Do you wait for my texts?

You caught her there.

99. What’s your favourite emoji?

She would send you.

100. Are we soulmates?

You could get a poem in return.

How To Ask These 100 Romantic Questions To Your Girlfriend?

Just don’t sit with all these questions and ask her like it is a job interview. She could run away. There is always a place or time to throw in a few questions. If you are looking for some romantic topics to talk to your girlfriend about then these questions could really help.

Even better, take her on a holiday and you can have a great game of asking 100 questions sitting by the fire. Do it over a few days. Write the questions in a chit and put it in separate boxes. She picks one answers and you pick one and answer her question.

This is a great way to get intimate, get romantic. We can already visualize you sitting by the fireplace and playing this game.

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